One of Our Own Competing In the Olympics

We have one of our own (from Remsen which is not far down the road), Erin Hamlin,  competing in the Olympics this year.  She is competing in the luge races.  It must be scary for her considering another competitor just died in the trial runs.  The track in my opinion, is way too fast!  It is the limit at how fast a track is recommended to be (90 miles per hour).  This is an adrenaline pumping sport with well trained athletes who know what they are getting themselves into, but I think that the officials should at least make the walls higher where the crash occurred so that hopefully there will be no further injuries or fatalities.

Since we live in snow country where many Olympians come from we plan on spending much time watching the Olympics.  In fact, the Olympics were held in this area (2 hours away in Lake Placid) two times and there is still an official training center there.  I am thinking that it would be a great unit study for school over the next 2 weeks and a great field trip opportunity to go and tour the training center next week.

I write all of this to say that we are cheering for Erin Hamlin and praying that God will keep her safe and relieve any fears she may now be having.

Journey To Becoming A Frugal Mom

Recently I said that I would be writing a post about how I was able to spend so little ($240) at the grocery store a couple of weeks ago for the month for a family of 7.  Last week I did spend $80.  Each week I still buy fruit and milk.  Although, I had a few more things to buy last week.  That being said, it is still much better than our $800 a month that we used to spend.

My journey to becoming a frugal mom began when we got married back in 1996.  We wanted to both go to Bible college and graduate debt free.  Our goal was accomplished!  I can remember many days when we had very little to eat, but we never went with out.  Our needs were always met.  My husband and I both worked on campus.  After we graduated our first child was born and my husband wanted to go on to seminary.  We both worked hard for a year saving money for the move and for seminary.  While my husband was in seminary, I decided to quit my job and start a day care in our home.  Our pay was drastically cut and we were not able to stay afloat.  Unfortunately, we went into debt by $7000.  A series of events happened and we were very thankful to be able to get out of debt.  At that point we chose to not have any more credit cards and to just survive on what ever money came in, no matter what!  Having a day care in the home became too stressful and I decided to work for an agency as a nanny.  We were blessed to find a wonderful Christian couple who needed a nanny.  I took our son to work daily and watched their son in their home who was the same age.  This more than met our needs!  I even gave birth to our second child and was still able to continue to care for their son while taking both of our children.  By the time I gave birth to our 3rd child, my job had come to an end.  The work with the agency continued on a need by need basis.  I was then able to chose my jobs and my hours.  We were only making $19,000 a year and had  3 children.  We learned to only buy what was necessary and to pay cash for everything (including seminary).  This meant that if we did not have the money when it came time to enroll for the semester then we would sit out and wait till we did.  Thankfully, we never had to do this!  When it came to children and vehicles, we made due with our little compact geo prism!  In fact we never owned a mini-van until our 4th child was 3 months old.  We were able to graduate debt free!!!

Our journey took us to New York for my husband to pastor a small church in a tiny tourist community.  At this point, I no longer had outside employment.  I was able to become a full-time homemaker.  I also gave birth to our 4th and 5th child.  Because it is a small church in a small town, my husband does not get paid much, but he is still a full time pastor.  With all this being said, I HAD to learn to be frugal or we would not have survived.  There were a few times that I thought that we would not survive, but God so graciously sent sickness into our home which brought people in the community into our home who saw our need and He provided through them.  After that, we decided that something had to be done.  I decided to read about how to be more frugal and to talk to other ladies in the church who used coupons.  I started out by reading, Shop, Save, and Share.  Then I checked out various blogs such as www.thegrocerygame.com and also purchased Teri's book and learned how to stock pile and shop according to cycles at the rock bottom price.  After this, I found many other blogs such as www.krazycouponlady.com and www.couponmom.com and shopped faithfully each week according to sales and coupons.  I was able to save much and stock pile greatly.  One of our church members had given us a chest freezer and I was able to fill it.  Many days when I shop, I will find mark downs or just good sales on meat and I will buy a lot (25-40 lbs).  The key to shopping this way is to know your prices (when it is a good buy or not) and to purchase a lot at one time.    A good inverstment at this point is a food saver for sealing your meat once you break it all down and repackage it.  I found it very helpful to keep my receipts and to keep a spiral bound notebook that became my price book.  In the beginning, it was very hard for me to just shop sales and use coupons only when it was rock bottom prices.  Sometimes, that meant I only purchased meat and 2 cases of olive oil.   In the beginning we did not have fancy menus.  After several weeks, I was thankful that I did this because I was then able to prepare more meals and have more food in my house then I ever did.  My menus could be as fancy as I wanted them and I could change my mind any time I wanted to change it.   The flexibility is amazing.  Now, if my husband lost his job tomorrow, we would be fine not grocery shopping for at least 3 months.

We would all sit down together and clip, file, and pull coupons.  I would then carefully review the ads and shop accordingly.  This was fine until the summer was over and I was back to teaching the kids school.  So, I took it down a notch and only clip the coupons that I need and try and not buy as much pre-packaged foods.  Suprisingly, I am able to save even more this way.  I shop at the high end stores (not Walmart) because they have better sales and I buy in large quantities.  Many times I find it cheaper to buy in smaller packages using a coupon.  I shop Price Chopper for the majority of our products, Aldi for our dairy products, and a food service warehouse for most of our bulk supplies used in baking.  Food service warehouses are a great place to get good prices on bulk supplies.  Just ask around and most of them will sell to the individual.  A couple of examples would be a 30 lb. box of cultivated IQF (individually quick frozen) blueberries for $29 or a 50 lb bag of steel-cut oats for $24.  Rite-Aid, CVS, and Walgreens are also great places to shop for paper supplies, baby care, and household cleaning supplies.  An example of a great buy recently was at Rite-Aid.  They have a promotion going on that ends tomorrow for P&G products that if you spend a certain up to $25 you get a pre-paid visa card for $15 or if you buy $100 worth of products in the promotion you get $35 in a pre-paid visa card.  So, I had my husband purchase 8 packages of pampers diapers for $8.99 a piece and I had 8 coupons for $2 off each package and 3 coupons for $5 off a $25 purchase from watching Rite-Aid videos www.riteaid.com
After I submit my SCR (single check refund) I will get $35 if I purchase $12 more dollars worth of products by tomorrow (which I intend to do online).  That is some pretty cheap diapers!!!

I have also learned to can when the fruit and vegetables are in season.  Also, making bread, hamburger buns, and rolls are quite easy and we enjoy it.  Plus, I have a friend that occassionally brings over free bread that was outdated from the bread truck.  We keep it in the freezer and pull it out when ready to use and it tastes wonderful.  This week, we were able to have grilled cheese sandwiches for lunch because of my friend's generosity.  To sum it all up, I have learned to think out side the box and be creative with what we have.

I would be more than happy to answer any questions if anyone has any.

What Determines A Successful School Day?

Who determines what success is or what it looks like?  Is it having all the subjects taught?  The house  cleaned and organized?  Laundry complete?  Meal cooked and served on time?  Not yelling at the children?  Children who are lovingly disciplined?  A happy mom and happy children?  Having family worship?  Time to exercise?  Time to spend with the Lord?  What is success?  To, me it looks different than it does to you.  However, these are questions that flow through my mind daily.  I am not around other moms to visit with about their day.  This is all trial and error with me.  At first I thought that it was all of the above and the Lord has greatly humbled me on this one.  Laundry is never fully complete, the house is never fully cleaned and organized (no matter how hard we try, especially with 5 little ones), school is often times interrupted, meals are not always cooked and served on time, mom and the children are not always happy, yelling occurs sometimes, exercise does not always get done, Bibles do not always get read, family worship does not always get taught, and children are not always lovingly disciplined.  So, what determines whether or not your day was a successful day?  Is it having helpful children who are considerate of others? Is it instilling a love for learning?  Is it teaching your children that life is not always easy and not always having an answer for everything?  What determines a successful school day?  What does it look like when you have a large family?

A Strange Prayer Request

Snow!!!  We need 18 more inches of snow by next week-end or they will cancel the National Sled Dog Races this year that comes to town every year and brings us much business.  This decrease in snow also affects the snow mobiles and the skiing.  I live in a tourist community in upstate New York and we receive on average 200+ inches of snow a year and this year we are down, which is not good for business.  Money is made from the tourists coming.  Without the tourists, our locals (people who live here year round) suffer.  So, please pray that we get at least 18 inches of snow by next week-end.

I Couldn't Resist...

The many faces of Emily.

Freezer Cooking Menu Plan

I know this is a little late considering it is already the 8th of the month.  This is our menu plan for February.  I borrowed a lot of the menu plan from www.lifeasmom.com because I had most of the items already in my freezer from sales that I had stocked up on.  I have been eating these meals in now particular order.  It is best for me to just have a list of about 28-30 dishes to chose from.  The only thing that I do consistantly is serve some kind of sandwich meal on Wednesday's because we have prayer meeting and I want to keep clean up as simple as possible.  It works!  Also, for breakfast we usually have hot cereal (grits, steel-cut oat, rice, and mixed grains) cooked overnight in the crock pot and grapes or bananas.  For lunch, I serve leftovers from the previous night's meal.  Here is my plan:

1. Chicken taco salad
2. Jambalaya, spinach salad, biscuits
3. Beans and rice, sweet potato muffins
4. Grilled cheese and kielbasa with onion sandwiches
5. Chicken or pork chimichangas, banana nut muffins, 
6. Pasta with red sauce, salad, focaccia
7. Chili and cornbread
8. Asian noodle salad (from Pioneer Woman), dinner rolls
9. Paella with shrimp and chicken, salad
10. Chicken Gyros and coleslaw
11. Beans and rice, cornbread
12. Pork chops with potatoes, carrots, green beans
13. Beef chimichangas, brown sugar muffins, oven roasted potatoes
14. chicken parmesan, pasta, broccoli, and dinner rolls
15. Carnitas soft tacos, coleslaw or mexican rice
16. baked chicken, rice pilaf, salad, and cornbread
17. Taco bake, focaccia
18. Beans and rice, salad, biscuits
19. Peanut butter chicken, green beans, pineapple, and dinner rolls
20. Barbeque sandwiches made with pork from carnitas, homemade buns, carrots
21. Pasta with red sauce, salad, and rolls
22. Beef gyros, rice pilaf, mixed fruit
23. Chicken tacos with beans, corn
24. Chicken chili and cornbread
25. Macaroni and cheese with bacon, green salad, blueberry muffins
26. Meatloaf, mashed potatoes, carrots, and dinner rolls
27. Chicken burgers with homemade buns, red potato salad
28. Chicken salad sandwiches and grapes

Snacks:

1. Blueberry muffins
2. Sweet potato muffins
3. applesauce muffins
4. Peanut butter and jam muffins
5. Brown sugar muffins
6. Cranberry muffins
7. Pumpkin muffins
8. Peanut butter balls
9. Pumpkin, butternut squash, and sweet potato pie
10. Blueberry bread pudding
11. Nutty granola
12. Chocolate chip cookies
13. Trail mix cookies.

All bread that is included in this menu plan is homemade.  I will share a few recipes throughout the week.  It would be wonderful to see your menu plan, too.  I always love to read others and to try new recipes.  I also plan on sharing my journey to becoming frugal and the books that influenced me the most.

Sunshine Award

A few days ago I received a sunshine award from my sweet friend, Celee, over at /http://miscellaneousmusings-x.blogspot.com/.  I wanted to thank her for spreading sunshine my way and pass on this same sunshine to 12 others who bring sunshine into my life daily as I read their blogs.  These ladies bring much encouragement into my lives and I pray for many them.  I hope that you will enjoy these blogs as much as I do.  I list these in no particular order.  


http://a2zdenton.blogspot.com/
http://financiallyfree4ever.blogspot.com/
http://www.owlhaven.net/
http://chrissyrenee79.blogspot.com/
http://www.preschoolersandpeace.com/
http://www.thethriftymama.com/
http://psalm37v4.blogspot.com/
http://6arrows.blogspot.com/
http://treasuredheirloom.blogspot.com/
http://forhisgreatglory.blogspot.com/
http://mommamindy.blogspot.com/
http://thetiemantribe.blogspot.com/


Once you receive this award just pass it on to 12 other bloggers who bring sunshine into your lives and then post a comment letting them know that you gave them this award.  This picture can be copied and pasted into your picture file and then you can place it on your blog by adding it as a picture.